1 00:00:16,219 --> 00:00:17,220 Come on in. 2 00:00:19,460 --> 00:00:20,800 Hi. Vanessa. 3 00:00:21,180 --> 00:00:22,180 I'm Dr. Brian. 4 00:00:22,260 --> 00:00:24,240 I'm Rico. So nice to meet you. 5 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:27,320 Please go ahead and take a seat. Thank you. 6 00:00:28,580 --> 00:00:31,140 So, what brings the two of you in today? 7 00:00:32,340 --> 00:00:38,500 Well, our parents noticed some problems developing between us. 8 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:41,620 They said that we had to come to therapy. 9 00:00:42,300 --> 00:00:49,120 kick it out so okay okay well you guys are in the right place um i fortunately 10 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:56,000 i do specialize in family um like well i suppose you could call it um before we 11 00:00:56,000 --> 00:01:01,080 get started though i just wanted to um get your consent um as you can see here 12 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:06,480 do have a camera um it helps me um try to be a little bit more present to what 13 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:07,480 you guys are saying 14 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:12,440 so that I'm not having to take down notes, like, for everything, and, like, 15 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:15,440 just makes the sessions continue on a lot easier for you. 16 00:01:15,780 --> 00:01:18,120 Does that make sense to you? 17 00:01:19,180 --> 00:01:23,920 That's not going anywhere else, right? No, absolutely not. This is 100 % for 18 00:01:23,980 --> 00:01:24,980 and I keep it very deep. 19 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:27,360 I mean, whatever works. 20 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:28,760 Yeah. 21 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:35,020 Well, so I suppose I should share with you a little bit about me, right? 22 00:01:36,890 --> 00:01:43,750 So I went to FU University. So I've practiced an unconventional method, but 23 00:01:43,750 --> 00:01:45,150 had a lot of success. 24 00:01:47,090 --> 00:01:51,170 And I've been in practice for 10 years now. 25 00:01:53,490 --> 00:01:57,150 Let's discuss some stuff about you guys. 26 00:01:57,570 --> 00:01:59,670 Okay. You go first. 27 00:02:01,590 --> 00:02:02,630 Well, I... 28 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:05,740 I like going to the beach. 29 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:09,419 I study in college. 30 00:02:11,020 --> 00:02:13,540 I'm trying to be a marine biologist. 31 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:14,840 That's cool. 32 00:02:14,940 --> 00:02:19,080 I like dolphins and I like women. 33 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:25,700 And there seems to be a complication with two because sometimes 34 00:02:25,700 --> 00:02:31,640 someone seems to get in all my relationships. Because of the dolphins 35 00:02:31,640 --> 00:02:32,640 women? The women. 36 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:34,860 I think you deserve better, though. 37 00:02:36,060 --> 00:02:39,180 But it's like none of your business who I'm messing with. 38 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:41,960 I want what's best for you. 39 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:45,940 We're discussing things on an individual basis. 40 00:02:46,180 --> 00:02:47,180 We'll get to this point. 41 00:02:48,180 --> 00:02:52,400 But I like it. I can tell there's some spice that we can work out here. 42 00:02:53,140 --> 00:02:54,140 Let Rico finish. 43 00:02:57,200 --> 00:03:00,860 On the weekends, I go to clubs. I hang out with my friends, you know. 44 00:03:01,260 --> 00:03:02,440 I just like to have fun. 45 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:05,140 You know, I'm a young college kid, you know. 46 00:03:05,580 --> 00:03:07,500 Nice. How long have you been in school for? 47 00:03:08,500 --> 00:03:10,040 Like two years. 48 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:13,140 Okay, okay. So you're finally getting into the flow of it. 49 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,480 I mean, it gets much more interesting at some point. 50 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:17,198 Oh, yeah. 51 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,320 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, very cool. 52 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:24,240 And now, like, are you living on campus, or where are you living? 53 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:29,540 No, I'm living with my parents right now, well, with our parents. 54 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:33,460 My dad recently married her mom. 55 00:03:33,820 --> 00:03:34,820 How long ago? 56 00:03:35,500 --> 00:03:38,800 I think that was, like, a couple of months ago. Oh, wow, without Fred. 57 00:03:39,140 --> 00:03:43,140 Yeah. My dad married her mom, like, maybe around three. 58 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:45,600 Four years ago. Okay, okay. 59 00:03:45,940 --> 00:03:50,000 So right at, like, high school and then you were going into college. 60 00:03:50,300 --> 00:03:52,800 Yeah. So you guys had some time getting to know each other. 61 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:54,080 Yeah. All right. 62 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:55,360 All right. 63 00:03:55,620 --> 00:03:59,700 And how is that working with, like, living at home and trying to find 64 00:03:59,700 --> 00:04:00,700 in college and everything? 65 00:04:01,060 --> 00:04:06,700 I mean, I'm having a breeze. I'm having fun with it. But, I 66 00:04:06,700 --> 00:04:10,400 mean, there's some complications here and there. 67 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:12,600 But... 68 00:04:13,550 --> 00:04:14,550 I don't know. 69 00:04:14,950 --> 00:04:18,810 I want to get my own place soon, but... Yeah, what are the complications? 70 00:04:21,290 --> 00:04:22,290 Her. 71 00:04:22,770 --> 00:04:25,690 Okay, all right. Hold on, we'll get to you. 72 00:04:26,270 --> 00:04:28,370 Can you elaborate what those complications are? 73 00:04:28,990 --> 00:04:34,930 Well, like, I'll be in my room, and I'll have a girl over, 74 00:04:35,110 --> 00:04:40,830 and all of a sudden, she needs something, and she has to interrupt, 75 00:04:41,230 --> 00:04:44,170 Like, right when we're getting down to the good stuff, too, and it's just like, 76 00:04:44,330 --> 00:04:48,930 come on, I'm just trying to have a college life. I'm trying to have fun, 77 00:04:48,930 --> 00:04:53,650 know? And, you know, so come in with, like, my laundry or something and just 78 00:04:53,650 --> 00:04:55,270 throw it at me. Okay, okay. 79 00:04:55,750 --> 00:05:01,410 So, okay. But let's keep it a little bit more about you at this particular 80 00:05:01,410 --> 00:05:05,730 moment, and we'll dive into the, like, the issues that you guys have between 81 00:05:05,730 --> 00:05:06,730 each other. 82 00:05:08,060 --> 00:05:13,740 But, okay, so you guys, you live together still, college, and some 83 00:05:13,740 --> 00:05:17,920 going on, and ultimately that is what is bringing the two of you here today. 84 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:23,320 Yeah. So let's dive into that in a minute. Okay. And let's talk about you. 85 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:24,800 What do you want to know? 86 00:05:25,980 --> 00:05:29,820 Since you live at home, are you going to school as well? 87 00:05:30,100 --> 00:05:33,500 Yeah, I'm going to cosmetology school. Oh, nice. Okay. What do you want to 88 00:05:33,500 --> 00:05:34,500 specialize in? 89 00:05:34,780 --> 00:05:36,160 Coloring. Coloring. 90 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:40,960 Oh, I love it. Okay. All right. That is some chemistry. 91 00:05:41,260 --> 00:05:42,380 Yeah. Okay. 92 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:47,200 All right. And then do you have any, like, particular hobbies or anything 93 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:48,700 you do or friends that you go and see? 94 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:50,320 Yeah, I have a lot of friends, girlfriends. 95 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:53,480 I go hiking with them, brunches, shopping, you know. 96 00:05:53,900 --> 00:05:54,900 Okay. Okay. 97 00:05:55,960 --> 00:06:01,820 And then since you guys live in the same house, how, like, 98 00:06:03,260 --> 00:06:05,740 far would you guys say you guys are from each other's rooms? 99 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:09,560 Like right across from each other. Yeah, right across the hall. That's really 100 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:11,960 difficult. Okay, pretty cool. 101 00:06:13,100 --> 00:06:15,200 Sometime. Okay, okay. 102 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:19,060 Alright, well it's always nice to save money and living with family too. 103 00:06:20,180 --> 00:06:22,540 Um, hmm, okay. 104 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:24,380 Is there anything you want to tell me about yourself? 105 00:06:26,900 --> 00:06:28,860 My brother is like the worst. 106 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:30,240 The worst? 107 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:32,160 He just never listens. 108 00:06:32,900 --> 00:06:36,500 Okay. What is it that you try to tell him? I just try to get what's best for 109 00:06:36,500 --> 00:06:38,540 him, but he just doesn't care. He wants what he wants. 110 00:06:38,860 --> 00:06:39,860 He's just very stubborn. 111 00:06:40,220 --> 00:06:41,220 Okay. 112 00:06:42,580 --> 00:06:44,720 He's just stubborn. Why do you feel the need to give him advice? 113 00:06:45,660 --> 00:06:48,260 Because, like, we're siblings, so, like, you know. 114 00:06:48,700 --> 00:06:49,860 Does he ask for it? 115 00:06:50,180 --> 00:06:51,620 No. Okay. 116 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:54,580 All right. I feel like he needs it, you know. 117 00:06:56,560 --> 00:07:01,740 Yeah, you know, I think that, like, especially with young men, it can be 118 00:07:01,740 --> 00:07:04,320 difficult to make very questionable decisions. 119 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:12,280 But, like, it can be a stress and a strain on the sibling dynamic if 120 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:13,380 it's not asked for. 121 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:17,800 I don't think it is, though. Like, he brings the wrong girls around. Like, 122 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:19,760 he can do so much better. 123 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:25,020 Okay, okay. I mean, Rico, how do you feel about that? 124 00:07:26,990 --> 00:07:30,550 I mean, I don't know how I could do that much better. I mean, Julie had a fat 125 00:07:30,550 --> 00:07:32,970 ass, and it was just... You see what I mean? 126 00:07:33,250 --> 00:07:34,250 Yeah, okay. 127 00:07:34,590 --> 00:07:38,110 Okay, so you're focusing on the physical attributes. 128 00:07:38,570 --> 00:07:40,270 I'm in college. I'm just trying to have fun. 129 00:07:40,750 --> 00:07:42,590 And I don't see anything wrong with that. 130 00:07:43,310 --> 00:07:48,170 I mean, as long as you're being safe, right? You're being safe in the process. 131 00:07:48,730 --> 00:07:52,910 Always. He does have the right to... 132 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:56,600 have a more casual encounter with women. 133 00:07:57,820 --> 00:08:01,200 And this is the time for you guys to figure yourselves out. 134 00:08:02,740 --> 00:08:04,720 Do you feel like you ever overstepped? 135 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:06,800 I think I just fine. 136 00:08:07,180 --> 00:08:08,320 How do you feel, Nico? 137 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:11,100 There's definitely overstepping there. 138 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:13,120 Yeah. How do you feel that way? 139 00:08:13,340 --> 00:08:15,840 Well, I mean, because you're always barging in my room at the wrong time. 140 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:16,739 just doing things. 141 00:08:16,740 --> 00:08:18,560 You're talking to me. You don't want to hang out with me? 142 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:22,860 It's not that. Like, it's just that, you know, I'm busy, you know? 143 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:25,920 All right. All right. All right. 144 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:31,400 I'm going to guess that this is a lot more tame than what you guys normally go 145 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:32,900 through. Okay. Okay. 146 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:45,720 How, like, how do you feel, like, when, like, this tension comes up? Like, what 147 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:47,300 comes to mind for you? 148 00:08:47,740 --> 00:08:48,740 There's no tension. 149 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:50,640 It's just, I don't know. 150 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:52,990 Complicated. It's complicated. 151 00:08:53,250 --> 00:08:54,250 Okay. 152 00:08:54,570 --> 00:08:55,650 So no tension. 153 00:08:57,170 --> 00:09:04,130 I think that we're going to have to work a little bit harder at 154 00:09:04,130 --> 00:09:05,130 this. 155 00:09:07,490 --> 00:09:11,910 It's very difficult as a young adult to be self -aware. 156 00:09:12,650 --> 00:09:16,670 And from an outside perspective, there certainly is some tension. 157 00:09:17,590 --> 00:09:19,070 Perhaps unwarranted. 158 00:09:21,130 --> 00:09:25,450 I mean, I don't know the professional term for it, but cock blocking. 159 00:09:27,590 --> 00:09:32,310 And, like, which, it's okay, especially if he's making bad decisions. You know, 160 00:09:32,350 --> 00:09:36,670 like, as a sibling, like, you do care for him. Yeah, I do care for him. It 161 00:09:36,670 --> 00:09:39,790 sounds like he's being particularly, he's being safe about this. 162 00:09:41,130 --> 00:09:44,390 Do you find your stepbrother to be attractive? 163 00:09:46,790 --> 00:09:49,810 He is my stepbrother. 164 00:09:51,189 --> 00:09:53,490 Yeah. I mean, I guess. 165 00:09:54,830 --> 00:09:55,830 He's okay. 166 00:09:56,930 --> 00:09:57,930 He's attractive. 167 00:09:58,630 --> 00:10:00,350 Yeah. I guess. 168 00:10:01,010 --> 00:10:02,010 Stepbrother, yeah. 169 00:10:02,130 --> 00:10:05,490 Yeah. But he would be more attractive if he made better choices as a woman. 170 00:10:06,870 --> 00:10:07,870 Again. 171 00:10:08,910 --> 00:10:09,910 Again. 172 00:10:10,610 --> 00:10:12,850 I have an idea. 173 00:10:13,410 --> 00:10:17,970 I think let's work through. 174 00:10:18,790 --> 00:10:25,230 what's going on on a different level rather than just talking about um well I 175 00:10:25,230 --> 00:10:31,310 think that what you need is to get out of the space that you're in 176 00:10:31,310 --> 00:10:37,870 and uh work through those feelings 177 00:10:37,870 --> 00:10:44,870 appropriately I suppose uh Rico um I am 178 00:10:44,870 --> 00:10:48,190 going to have you come here and stand in front of your 179 00:10:54,890 --> 00:10:58,130 I mean, he's not a bad -looking gentleman. 180 00:10:58,610 --> 00:11:03,450 And you guys met in high school when the two of you were 181 00:11:03,450 --> 00:11:08,830 becoming more interested in the other gender, right? 182 00:11:09,810 --> 00:11:12,090 I mean, get him. 183 00:11:12,350 --> 00:11:17,850 And I would say he's, like, you are quite a handsome man. 184 00:11:18,110 --> 00:11:21,090 Thank you. And, like, I'm sure that... 185 00:11:23,420 --> 00:11:24,940 Good as you can possibly do. 186 00:11:25,300 --> 00:11:27,600 So it's not like it's coming from the back, right? 187 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:29,280 Right. Yeah. 188 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:31,280 Go ahead and look at him. 189 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:35,620 Look at your brother. 190 00:11:36,020 --> 00:11:38,900 Look at him. Appreciate him for who he is. 191 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:43,240 You don't have to be shy about this at all. 192 00:11:43,540 --> 00:11:47,780 It's a different kind of relationship when, like, you guys meet each other 193 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:49,980 like, your hormones are surging. 194 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:57,040 And, like, it's just a very different relationship to be brought into the 195 00:11:57,040 --> 00:11:57,959 like that, right? 196 00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:04,340 True. So it's okay to find attraction in each other. I think that, like, 197 00:12:04,420 --> 00:12:11,320 what I'm sensing from the two of you is that there's a tension. 198 00:12:12,680 --> 00:12:19,460 I mean, you are very clearly disturbed that I'm touching him right now. 199 00:12:19,820 --> 00:12:21,720 I don't know. Are you territorial with him? 200 00:12:21,980 --> 00:12:22,699 No, I'm not. 201 00:12:22,700 --> 00:12:23,659 You're not? 202 00:12:23,660 --> 00:12:24,660 No. Okay. 203 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:25,939 All right. 204 00:12:25,940 --> 00:12:27,620 Let's see what this goes on. Yeah. 205 00:12:28,540 --> 00:12:32,080 So, you wouldn't mind if I 206 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:36,700 got closer to him? 207 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:38,600 Yeah, you would. 208 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:40,880 Is that what you need? 209 00:12:41,900 --> 00:12:44,260 What is this about? 210 00:12:44,560 --> 00:12:47,680 This is completely fine with me. 211 00:12:48,650 --> 00:12:55,490 I am going to work on making you 212 00:12:55,490 --> 00:13:02,370 more aware of your feelings and perhaps make it so that your relationship with 213 00:13:02,370 --> 00:13:03,890 each other is not as hostile. 214 00:13:05,030 --> 00:13:06,690 But, whatever you say. 215 00:13:08,150 --> 00:13:13,190 So, now this is going to be a little bit uncomfortable. 216 00:13:14,230 --> 00:13:16,510 And before we get started on this. 217 00:13:17,850 --> 00:13:22,950 I really want you to, like, want this relationship to be a healthy 218 00:13:23,470 --> 00:13:25,690 Like, are you invested in it? 219 00:13:25,970 --> 00:13:26,769 I am. 220 00:13:26,770 --> 00:13:30,690 Okay. Are you willing to put in the work? Because therapy isn't easy. 221 00:13:31,130 --> 00:13:32,130 Yeah. 222 00:13:32,330 --> 00:13:33,790 Okay. I love my brother, so yeah. 223 00:13:34,050 --> 00:13:38,290 Yeah. No, I can feel that. That's why you care about the women that you're 224 00:13:38,290 --> 00:13:39,290 involved with. Yeah. 225 00:13:39,510 --> 00:13:43,450 So do you trust me to walk you through those? 226 00:13:44,570 --> 00:13:45,570 I guess. 227 00:13:45,770 --> 00:13:46,770 Okay. 228 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:53,240 So I want you two to have the relationship that you two are meant to 229 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:55,320 not have this hostility towards each other. 230 00:13:55,560 --> 00:13:56,560 That sounds amazing. 231 00:13:56,840 --> 00:14:01,940 Okay. And if at any time you are uncomfortable, you can tell me, okay? 232 00:14:02,180 --> 00:14:03,180 Okay. 233 00:14:03,580 --> 00:14:05,140 I'm going to push your comfort levels. 234 00:14:05,380 --> 00:14:06,380 Okay. 235 00:14:06,980 --> 00:14:08,520 Yeah. Whatever works. 236 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:10,240 All right. 237 00:14:10,540 --> 00:14:12,400 Well, how do you feel? 238 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:13,760 Okay. 239 00:14:32,300 --> 00:14:33,440 Use your words. 240 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:35,160 Tell me how you feel. 241 00:14:35,420 --> 00:14:36,420 I'm fine. 242 00:14:36,780 --> 00:14:39,000 I'm fine, too. 243 00:14:43,820 --> 00:14:44,960 Is he in therapy? 244 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:49,780 I'm sure you're going to get in touch with him soon. 245 00:14:51,560 --> 00:14:58,520 How do you feel? 246 00:15:12,490 --> 00:15:14,070 You know what they say about the word fine? 247 00:15:15,590 --> 00:15:17,030 It's a terrible word. 248 00:15:18,310 --> 00:15:21,330 It's so disconnected from how you feel, for real. 249 00:15:22,190 --> 00:15:23,470 There's more words there. 250 00:15:28,110 --> 00:15:33,710 What is this, really? 251 00:15:35,030 --> 00:15:37,310 This is not therapy. Why are you really recording? 252 00:15:44,560 --> 00:15:46,280 What is this? This is not therapy, though. 253 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:50,020 I told you this was unconventional, but I'm very respectful. 254 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:54,520 Making sure that everyone comes together. I don't believe it. I think 255 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:58,720 working with me. This is what you always do. 256 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:00,120 You ruin things. 257 00:16:00,940 --> 00:16:03,020 So, would you like to be involved? 258 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:04,560 No. 259 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:07,500 How do you feel right now, though? Are you feeling jealous? 260 00:16:08,380 --> 00:16:10,700 Are you... She's always like this. 261 00:16:11,820 --> 00:16:15,080 Then I'm going to initiate it. Actually, it's not his fault. 262 00:16:16,500 --> 00:16:23,220 Does it bother you that he and I are intimately 263 00:16:23,220 --> 00:16:24,740 touching and that I kiss him? 264 00:16:25,020 --> 00:16:26,420 Yeah. Yeah? 265 00:16:27,020 --> 00:16:28,360 What about that bothers you? 266 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:33,320 I don't know. He just could be doing better things than you. 267 00:16:33,900 --> 00:16:34,920 Oh, than me. 268 00:16:35,140 --> 00:16:41,120 He don't think that me, as a successful therapist, that he could do better than 269 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:42,120 me. 270 00:16:42,620 --> 00:16:43,840 Um, we can actually. 271 00:16:44,420 --> 00:16:45,500 Do you think that you're better? 272 00:16:45,900 --> 00:16:46,900 No. 273 00:16:47,140 --> 00:16:50,520 No? There's even better, but I might be. I don't know. 274 00:16:50,720 --> 00:16:57,160 I think that, I think that you're plus me, right? Yeah. 275 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:06,780 Now, Rico, do you feel like she is interested in you? 276 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:10,780 Um, I do. Do you feel like that's where this jealousy is coming from? 277 00:17:11,260 --> 00:17:12,460 It definitely feels jealous. 278 00:17:12,980 --> 00:17:14,180 I'm not too sure. 279 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:17,480 I mean... You guys are still getting to know each other. Yeah. 280 00:17:17,680 --> 00:17:22,599 I work with deaf siblings and deaf families, like, every day. 281 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:27,339 And this dynamic is very difficult. You two weren't related. You both came into 282 00:17:27,339 --> 00:17:31,440 each other's lives while you were becoming, like, sexually aware. 283 00:17:31,740 --> 00:17:33,900 And now here you guys are discovering yourselves. 284 00:17:35,340 --> 00:17:39,440 So, what I'm seeing that's going on here... 285 00:17:40,110 --> 00:17:46,650 is that you're attracted to your stepbrother, and you're 286 00:17:46,650 --> 00:17:53,510 finding some pain and some jealousy while he is in the process of getting 287 00:17:53,510 --> 00:18:00,110 to know himself, and it's making for your relationship to be a little bit 288 00:18:00,110 --> 00:18:01,110 toxic. 289 00:18:02,890 --> 00:18:05,330 Now, would you agree? 290 00:18:07,090 --> 00:18:08,470 I mean, I guess. 291 00:18:09,850 --> 00:18:12,470 I mean, what's holding you back? 292 00:18:12,870 --> 00:18:14,210 Like, brother and sister. 293 00:18:15,210 --> 00:18:21,370 Oh, yeah, I can see that that would be very difficult. But, I mean, you guys 294 00:18:21,370 --> 00:18:25,290 brother and sister of a marriage, right? You're mom and you're dad. 295 00:18:25,630 --> 00:18:30,830 Yeah. So, like, and in this space, it's a safe space. 296 00:18:31,870 --> 00:18:37,410 There's no judgment on your feelings that are completely normal. 297 00:18:38,220 --> 00:18:42,420 Like, you guys love each other when you're, like, becoming aware. 298 00:18:43,060 --> 00:18:47,140 And, like, I'm completely human. 299 00:18:48,020 --> 00:18:49,460 Okay. You're right. 300 00:18:49,820 --> 00:18:50,820 Yeah. 301 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:58,600 So, what goes on in here never goes 302 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:00,500 outside of these doors. 303 00:19:00,940 --> 00:19:01,940 I promise. 304 00:19:02,260 --> 00:19:03,260 I promise. 305 00:19:03,360 --> 00:19:04,360 I do. 306 00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:06,800 And what I think would... 307 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:13,800 Do the two of you that is to explore what 308 00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:19,240 you're feeling with each other so that you guys don't end up resenting and 309 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:20,600 hating each other in this process. 310 00:19:21,260 --> 00:19:28,100 This is an opportunity for the two of you to explore your relationship with 311 00:19:28,100 --> 00:19:29,079 each other. 312 00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:30,320 What do you mean by that? 313 00:19:32,120 --> 00:19:34,860 I think that the two of you need to... 314 00:19:36,670 --> 00:19:38,290 Embrace what it is that you desire. 315 00:19:39,690 --> 00:19:45,670 Holding back and ignoring it is destroying your relationship with each 316 00:19:47,990 --> 00:19:49,130 Yeah, I guess. 317 00:19:49,490 --> 00:19:51,010 I mean, she's a professional. 318 00:19:52,170 --> 00:19:55,830 I want you to stand up and face your breakfast. 319 00:19:56,870 --> 00:19:57,870 Why? 320 00:19:58,850 --> 00:20:01,190 It's time to explore what you feel with them. 321 00:20:10,060 --> 00:20:15,900 So this is where you guys don't have to have, like, any of your barriers or 322 00:20:15,900 --> 00:20:18,920 boundaries of, like, what should be and what shouldn't be, right? 323 00:20:20,100 --> 00:20:21,900 Let's just embrace what you feel. 324 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:27,960 Okay. When you find him attractive and you like him as a person, right? 325 00:20:28,500 --> 00:20:30,700 You've got his brother. 326 00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:32,700 Yeah, he's your stepbrother. 327 00:20:32,900 --> 00:20:34,840 And you've gotten to know him very well. 328 00:20:35,120 --> 00:20:36,880 Yeah. And how do you feel about her? 329 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:39,580 I mean, she's always. 330 00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:42,620 really cool and, you know, we do have a lot of fun together. 331 00:20:43,580 --> 00:20:46,360 And I guess you're kind of cute. 332 00:20:46,740 --> 00:20:48,320 Yeah. Okay. 333 00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:55,720 I think let's take that nervousness out of your arms and stop questioning 334 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:56,720 yourself. 335 00:20:57,720 --> 00:21:00,100 You should embrace your brother. 336 00:21:00,420 --> 00:21:01,720 You should touch him. 337 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:07,040 It's okay. It's okay. He's not going to, like, all of a sudden, like, fight you 338 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:08,040 or something. 339 00:21:08,360 --> 00:21:12,620 Right? You're not going to just like, no, no, no. This is your brother. You've 340 00:21:12,620 --> 00:21:15,600 lived with him. You've known him for four years now. 341 00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:17,980 Yeah. And touch him. 342 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:19,920 Touch him. 343 00:21:20,360 --> 00:21:21,460 Can you get closer? 344 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:23,500 Come on. Get closer. Get closer. 345 00:21:23,900 --> 00:21:24,900 Okay. 346 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:27,660 Okay. There's no judgments here. 347 00:21:28,700 --> 00:21:29,700 How does that feel? 348 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:31,520 Okay. Yeah? 349 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:33,940 You're so relieved, aren't you? 350 00:21:34,140 --> 00:21:36,180 Yeah. Why are you holding back? 351 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:37,960 You know. 352 00:21:38,300 --> 00:21:41,300 It's just my brother is different. 353 00:21:42,460 --> 00:21:44,020 Have you been thinking about? 354 00:21:46,220 --> 00:21:47,220 A little bit. 355 00:21:47,500 --> 00:21:48,800 What have you been thinking about? 356 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:50,520 I don't know. 357 00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:53,380 No judgments. 358 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:55,060 I think he is cute. 359 00:21:56,020 --> 00:21:58,140 What would you do with a cute noun? 360 00:21:59,980 --> 00:22:01,060 Step into my room. 361 00:22:02,140 --> 00:22:03,340 Let's say this is your room. 362 00:22:03,580 --> 00:22:07,160 What would you do in your room? 363 00:22:07,610 --> 00:22:08,610 Look at cute now. 364 00:22:09,170 --> 00:22:10,170 Yeah? 365 00:22:12,190 --> 00:22:13,190 Yeah. 366 00:22:13,970 --> 00:22:14,970 This is your room. 367 00:22:16,070 --> 00:22:17,330 I don't know about that. 368 00:22:18,190 --> 00:22:23,810 I think that he is more than willing to have you fuck his dick. 369 00:22:24,050 --> 00:22:25,050 Oh, wow. 370 00:22:25,990 --> 00:22:26,990 He's a bro. 371 00:22:27,870 --> 00:22:29,550 He's a perv. 372 00:22:29,790 --> 00:22:32,810 That's a little bit of both. The situation's kind of hot. 373 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:36,880 I mean, I get it, yeah. 374 00:22:37,260 --> 00:22:38,260 Do you want to touch it? 375 00:22:38,700 --> 00:22:39,700 Yeah. 376 00:22:40,020 --> 00:22:41,220 Do you want to look at it? 377 00:22:41,420 --> 00:22:44,620 Yeah. Yeah. Do you want to undo it? 378 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:46,680 Yeah. 379 00:22:47,660 --> 00:22:48,920 Why don't you undo his pants? 380 00:22:51,740 --> 00:22:52,740 Like that? 381 00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:54,340 You know how to undo pants. 382 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:03,320 And then you can treat him like a cute man that you brought him to your place. 383 00:23:04,060 --> 00:23:05,060 Touch him. 384 00:23:06,090 --> 00:23:09,410 Touching like you would if you wanted to. 385 00:23:10,650 --> 00:23:11,650 Mm -hmm. 386 00:23:12,050 --> 00:23:13,050 Mm -hmm. 387 00:23:16,030 --> 00:23:17,730 And you two are okay with this? 388 00:23:18,590 --> 00:23:20,270 Yeah. Yeah. Okay. 389 00:23:21,250 --> 00:23:22,870 I'm very sure about this. 390 00:23:23,070 --> 00:23:25,970 I think you should get yourself a little more comfortable. 391 00:23:26,310 --> 00:23:28,030 I mean, you should get into the shoes of yours. 392 00:23:28,590 --> 00:23:31,390 I don't know. I don't want to get undressed a little bit. 393 00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:36,720 What are you going to do if you bring a cute noun to the fuck home? Are you 394 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:41,400 going to continue life -dressed and band -aid blankets with the lights off? 395 00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:44,760 No. Are you going to take them home? 396 00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:48,440 I guess. 397 00:23:48,700 --> 00:23:49,700 I don't know. 398 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,660 I don't care. Let me make you a little bit more comfortable. 399 00:23:52,940 --> 00:23:59,920 Show you that there is absolutely nothing wrong with being 400 00:23:59,920 --> 00:24:00,920 naked. 401 00:24:13,409 --> 00:24:14,409 I mean, 402 00:24:15,170 --> 00:24:17,950 unless you're doing a quickie in the bathroom or something, and you're just, 403 00:24:18,010 --> 00:24:19,710 like, pulling your pants down into the hole. 404 00:24:20,830 --> 00:24:23,030 But you said this was your bedroom, right? Yeah. 405 00:24:23,510 --> 00:24:24,489 All right. 406 00:24:24,490 --> 00:24:31,170 Look at how your brother's dick 407 00:24:31,170 --> 00:24:32,630 responds. 408 00:24:35,650 --> 00:24:37,090 Tell her how you feel about this. 409 00:24:37,970 --> 00:24:38,970 This. 410 00:24:39,210 --> 00:24:40,210 Very attractive. 411 00:24:40,430 --> 00:24:41,430 Yeah. 412 00:24:41,770 --> 00:24:42,770 Yeah. 413 00:24:43,090 --> 00:24:46,810 Do you think that she's better than the women that you've been bringing to your 414 00:24:46,810 --> 00:24:48,810 room? I mean, yeah. 415 00:24:49,190 --> 00:24:51,330 I told you. Yeah. 416 00:24:51,570 --> 00:24:54,950 I think that you guys should look at her. 417 00:24:55,490 --> 00:24:57,410 Maybe take her bra off. 418 00:24:57,750 --> 00:24:58,910 Rub that cover. 419 00:25:00,470 --> 00:25:03,690 Treat her like the woman that she should be treating like. 420 00:25:19,450 --> 00:25:21,290 What you should do with your brother. 421 00:25:24,610 --> 00:25:25,730 Embrace his body. 422 00:25:27,010 --> 00:25:29,670 Let him rub his body up against yours. 423 00:25:31,050 --> 00:25:32,310 Touch his dick. 424 00:25:32,610 --> 00:25:34,030 Get him nice and ready. 425 00:25:34,690 --> 00:25:38,390 These kinds of things make me wet before I even take a piss. 426 00:25:39,890 --> 00:25:40,890 Touch him. 427 00:25:41,130 --> 00:25:42,430 Lean against him. 428 00:25:44,890 --> 00:25:45,890 Don't be shy. 429 00:25:55,150 --> 00:25:58,190 You've just been fantasizing about your brother sometimes. 430 00:26:00,010 --> 00:26:01,010 Yeah. 431 00:26:01,550 --> 00:26:07,170 I bet it hurt to watch all those girls that weren't your kind of time. 432 00:26:08,230 --> 00:26:09,490 Yeah. Getting married. 433 00:26:10,030 --> 00:26:12,510 Yeah. How does it feel to get married? 434 00:26:13,290 --> 00:26:14,370 It feels good. 435 00:26:14,750 --> 00:26:15,750 Yeah. 436 00:26:16,030 --> 00:26:17,250 Do you want to go further? 437 00:26:18,110 --> 00:26:19,110 I do. 438 00:26:19,530 --> 00:26:21,070 Well, I don't want to go further. 439 00:26:21,270 --> 00:26:22,270 I'm going to be asking you. 440 00:26:22,610 --> 00:26:24,730 There you go. I think you should go now. 441 00:26:30,550 --> 00:26:33,610 Yeah. Yeah. 442 00:26:36,690 --> 00:26:38,090 Yeah. 443 00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:57,560 Yeah. 444 00:26:58,020 --> 00:26:59,020 That'd be helpful. 445 00:26:59,180 --> 00:27:00,180 That's good. 446 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:02,920 There's a solution. 447 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:09,320 Yeah. Pleasure to get more comfortable in the time. 448 00:27:10,940 --> 00:27:13,360 Rico, how are you with going down with him? 449 00:27:14,940 --> 00:27:16,620 Experience. Yeah, 450 00:27:18,100 --> 00:27:20,320 he is. Have you thought of him going down with him? 451 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:21,760 Sometimes, yeah. 452 00:27:53,580 --> 00:27:54,980 There are no changes. 453 00:27:57,550 --> 00:27:59,690 I'm so good at it. You know, I'm good at it. 454 00:28:00,230 --> 00:28:01,950 Oh, my gosh. 455 00:28:02,410 --> 00:28:03,410 Oh, my gosh. 456 00:28:05,090 --> 00:28:06,730 Yeah. Wow. 457 00:28:07,910 --> 00:28:10,830 Oh, I think you're one of us kind. 458 00:28:21,130 --> 00:28:22,130 I'm done. 459 00:28:24,210 --> 00:28:26,990 Do you feel that tension between the two of you, Malcolm? 460 00:28:27,550 --> 00:28:28,550 Mm -hmm. 461 00:28:28,790 --> 00:28:30,190 Mm 462 00:28:30,190 --> 00:28:36,570 -hmm. 463 00:29:03,370 --> 00:29:04,470 Oh, my God. Oh, my God. 464 00:29:04,950 --> 00:29:06,290 Oh, my God. Oh, 465 00:29:07,310 --> 00:29:09,010 my God. 466 00:29:09,530 --> 00:29:10,530 Oh, my God. 467 00:29:10,690 --> 00:29:12,630 Oh, my God. Oh, my God. 468 00:29:12,950 --> 00:29:15,110 Oh, my God. 469 00:29:15,930 --> 00:29:17,270 Oh, my God. 470 00:29:18,930 --> 00:29:20,090 Oh, my God. 471 00:29:21,430 --> 00:29:22,430 Oh, 472 00:29:22,830 --> 00:29:25,230 my God. 473 00:29:27,070 --> 00:29:30,570 I think those pants should come off. No more shorts. 474 00:29:45,210 --> 00:29:46,210 See you on the region. 475 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:20,160 Thank you. 476 00:31:00,179 --> 00:31:02,640 That's pretty nice. 477 00:31:09,510 --> 00:31:11,990 It's like taking a shot when he deeps out. 478 00:31:14,010 --> 00:31:17,490 Just open up your throat and let that go into the past. 479 00:31:17,730 --> 00:31:18,730 How does that feel? 480 00:31:19,130 --> 00:31:20,129 That's good. 481 00:31:20,130 --> 00:31:21,150 Now you're going further. 482 00:31:21,370 --> 00:31:22,370 Now try for more. 483 00:31:22,590 --> 00:31:23,850 More? Try more. 484 00:31:24,230 --> 00:31:25,250 I don't know. 485 00:31:25,970 --> 00:31:26,970 It's crazy. 486 00:31:27,290 --> 00:31:29,270 I don't know. That's what I need to do. 487 00:31:30,150 --> 00:31:34,310 Just imagine taking a shot and he said you're taking that dick. 488 00:31:35,150 --> 00:31:38,030 Mm -hmm. See how much room you've got? Mm -hmm. Yeah. 489 00:31:38,710 --> 00:31:39,710 Mm -hmm. 490 00:31:40,910 --> 00:31:41,910 Oh. 491 00:31:42,670 --> 00:31:44,150 Shh. Oh, wow. 492 00:31:45,010 --> 00:31:46,010 Mm -hmm. 493 00:31:46,730 --> 00:31:47,730 Oh, wow. 494 00:31:49,110 --> 00:31:50,950 I don't feel it. 495 00:31:51,310 --> 00:31:55,590 Where do you feel your gut reflex in your chest? Right here. 496 00:31:55,810 --> 00:31:56,810 Right here? Yeah, right there? 497 00:31:56,890 --> 00:32:00,310 If you try to open it up and try to bend the ankle, it's probably hurting. 498 00:32:00,650 --> 00:32:02,790 I don't think so. Try it. 499 00:32:06,420 --> 00:32:07,480 There you go. 500 00:32:09,300 --> 00:32:10,960 There you go. You went there. 501 00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:12,160 You went pretty far. 502 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,980 Yeah. How do you want him to fuck you? 503 00:32:42,460 --> 00:32:43,940 How I hate moms. 504 00:32:44,980 --> 00:32:47,020 How do you want to fuck her? 505 00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:48,600 Doggy style. 506 00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:51,440 Doggy. Of course. 507 00:32:52,740 --> 00:32:53,740 Okay. 508 00:32:56,240 --> 00:33:01,220 I feel like you guys are making some... 509 00:33:05,150 --> 00:33:06,310 You've got a lot of good products. 510 00:34:08,139 --> 00:34:09,600 Yeah, in and out real good, yeah. 511 00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:11,320 Oh, my God. 512 00:34:11,620 --> 00:34:12,620 Oh, my God. 513 00:34:13,659 --> 00:34:14,659 Oh, my God. 514 00:36:50,860 --> 00:36:57,060 But in my opinion, a missionary is the most intimate of positions, and you can 515 00:36:57,060 --> 00:36:58,700 really dig into each other. 516 00:37:02,980 --> 00:37:09,300 This way you can see each other's faces or communicate with her. 517 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,280 Oh, yeah. 518 00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,520 Let me see how you can see each other's eyes. 519 00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:17,920 It's so much harder when you're walking behind. 520 00:37:22,730 --> 00:37:24,170 Oh, fuck yes. 521 00:37:25,110 --> 00:37:26,069 Oh, 522 00:37:26,070 --> 00:37:37,610 yes, 523 00:37:37,790 --> 00:37:38,790 yes, yes, yes. 524 00:37:40,250 --> 00:37:42,150 Let's see if you can control your hips. 525 00:37:43,170 --> 00:37:49,350 Oh, it's fine. Would you split with us? Are you still alive? 526 00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:57,740 Oh, my God, yes. 527 00:37:58,460 --> 00:37:59,460 Oh, my God. 528 00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:24,400 I need you guys to build up that intimacy. 529 00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:11,620 You want me to help you? Yeah. 530 00:39:11,900 --> 00:39:12,900 You want me to help you? 531 00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:14,959 It's nice. 532 00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:15,980 Oh, my God. 533 00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:18,060 Oh, my God. 534 00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:19,400 Oh, 535 00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:20,960 my God, yeah. 536 00:39:22,940 --> 00:39:23,940 Yes, 537 00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:25,920 yes, yes. 538 00:39:47,740 --> 00:39:51,780 If you have such an intimate relationship already, embrace that. 539 00:39:53,500 --> 00:39:55,500 Take your time with that pussy. 540 00:39:56,440 --> 00:40:01,800 Always wanting to fuck from behind and just like bang it out. Young men are so 541 00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:02,800 predictable. 542 00:40:03,540 --> 00:40:07,220 Treat that pussy with some love and respect. She's your sister. 543 00:40:30,379 --> 00:40:35,320 I mean you have been difficult you can put some work into this one 544 00:40:38,190 --> 00:40:40,030 I think he deserves your effort. 545 00:40:40,310 --> 00:40:41,310 It does. 546 00:40:42,030 --> 00:40:43,410 I don't want to fight back. 547 00:40:45,230 --> 00:40:46,550 Should I face him now? 548 00:40:47,090 --> 00:40:48,970 Do you want to see his face while you fight back? 549 00:40:49,230 --> 00:40:50,230 Yeah. 550 00:41:06,190 --> 00:41:07,510 That's a tight little cunt. 551 00:41:07,790 --> 00:41:11,190 You might want to gesture it into your pussy. 552 00:41:11,750 --> 00:41:12,750 There you go. 553 00:41:13,210 --> 00:41:14,790 Oh, there we go. 554 00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:49,160 I bet 555 00:41:49,160 --> 00:42:05,120 you 556 00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:06,680 if you ask him to fuck you. 557 00:42:08,710 --> 00:42:14,250 Thank you. Thank you. 558 00:42:39,240 --> 00:42:41,180 Do you feel a better bond with that person? 559 00:42:42,340 --> 00:42:44,840 Are you feeling better about that? 560 00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:47,280 Yeah. Are you feeling better about me now? 561 00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:49,040 Yeah. 562 00:43:20,420 --> 00:43:25,180 I think you deserve to be treated well. 563 00:43:40,150 --> 00:43:41,890 You know? 564 00:44:54,700 --> 00:44:55,700 Thank you. 565 00:45:58,190 --> 00:45:59,190 That's our experience. 566 00:45:59,590 --> 00:46:01,290 Yeah. I like that. 567 00:46:02,070 --> 00:46:03,610 I like that I'm missing the position. 568 00:46:03,890 --> 00:46:04,890 Yeah. 569 00:46:05,150 --> 00:46:06,250 I think you should. 570 00:46:30,759 --> 00:46:33,400 I think it's your turn to tell her what you feel about her. 571 00:46:34,620 --> 00:46:35,980 I feel nice. 572 00:46:36,820 --> 00:46:37,820 Yeah. 573 00:46:39,380 --> 00:46:40,380 Yeah. 574 00:46:40,700 --> 00:46:46,720 Tell her what you think of her. 575 00:46:47,140 --> 00:46:48,420 I think she's very gorgeous. 576 00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:52,240 Have you been thinking of fucking her? 577 00:46:52,740 --> 00:46:53,718 A little. 578 00:46:53,720 --> 00:46:56,680 Yeah. I guess I'm a little bit better at hiding it from you. 579 00:46:58,060 --> 00:47:00,760 I don't think you don't hide it that well if you're bringing girls home for 580 00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:01,760 to hear you. 581 00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:05,140 How else am I going to get my message across? 582 00:47:05,340 --> 00:47:06,960 Oh, you want to fuck her? 583 00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:09,720 You could just fuck her. 584 00:49:13,870 --> 00:49:15,630 Look at you being so considerate. 585 00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,680 Oh, my God. 586 00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:17,000 Oh, 587 00:52:17,240 --> 00:52:18,240 that's so funny. 588 00:52:40,410 --> 00:52:41,410 Fuck. Oh. 589 00:52:41,850 --> 00:52:43,550 Yes, yes, yes. Fuck. 590 00:52:43,870 --> 00:52:45,570 Oh, shit. 591 00:52:46,890 --> 00:52:47,890 Oh. 592 00:52:48,130 --> 00:52:49,570 Oh, fuck. 593 00:52:49,970 --> 00:52:50,970 Oh, my. 594 00:52:51,410 --> 00:52:52,410 Oh, you guys. 595 00:52:52,690 --> 00:52:54,170 Oh, fuck. 596 00:52:54,450 --> 00:52:57,750 Oh, hi. Thank you, guys. I'm having such a great time. Yeah. 597 00:52:58,790 --> 00:53:00,450 Oh. You too. 598 00:53:01,510 --> 00:53:02,910 Let's do two seal now. 599 00:53:03,170 --> 00:53:04,170 Oh, my God. 600 00:53:09,900 --> 00:53:11,980 This is definitely the best therapy session I've been to.